Freedom vs Fear…Who you Betting On?

freedom, fear, action, alignment, dreams, goals, achievement, James Calderon, Positively James, advice, positivity, thoughts“Greatness belongs to those who have mastered their internal world.”

~Brendon Burchard

Haha!!! Oh man, let’s get real, how close are we to mastering our internal world?  How do we know we have? Well, let me first tell you, I am far from having mastered my internal world.  How do I know? I still make unconscious (automatic) decisions based on old fears. Fears that conjure up thoughts of worry and give me a sense that I may not be enough.

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Why Kindness Can Change Your Mood and Your Life

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I’ve been noticing that there are more and more people becoming inspired by what I do. Some have even been inspired to the point they’ve begun to take steps toward their passions or calling.

As an influencer, there is nothing that jazzes me up more than hearing or seeing this.  It’s even better when they reach out and ask for help. Why? Because I remember being in their shoes not too long ago.  I remember searching for people who were doing what I wanted to do. I also remember how grateful I was for their assistance and kindness along the way. In some way or form they changed my life for the better♥

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The Grind May Not Be For Everyone

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Oh boy, we live in a time where being an entrepreneur is looked at as one of the coolest things to be. And why not, right? The idea of freedom from the 9-5 and the old ways of living life, as well following one’s dream and being able to live purposefully are ridiculously enticing.  In all honestly, that’s why I decided to become one.

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How Sticking To The Facts Can Reduce The Suffering In Our Lives

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Let’s not beat around the bush.  Life can certainly be a doozy to handle sometimes. It can be as cold as ice and hard as nails. So we “think” anyway. Here are some phrases we might say when the going gets tough:

“Why me?!!”

“I’m a failure.”

“What did I do to deserve this?”

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